The Chandler's

Double Digits!

2012-02-03T19:06:00.000-08:00

HAPPY 10th BIRTHDAY ISAIAH!!!!

To our soft hearted, talented, smart son. You are an amazing big brother and cousin who is adored. You have found good friends and are growing so quickly!

We LOVE YOU!
-mom, dad and Q

A side conversation that occured this morning on the way to school: (while I am DRIVING him so that I can drop off the brownies I MADE for him and his ENTIRE class)

me: "I can't believe you are 10 today! I feel so old."

Isaiah: "Because you are old mom."

E's Birthday Events

2011-10-16T09:21:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was E's birthday (as most know...or SHOULD since he often provides a countdown). Being a chip off the old block, Isaiah could not hardly wait any longer to give E his presents and of course, E was in full support of receiving his presents early. Thus, presents were opened late Thursday evening. Isaiah was very proud that he picked out the baseball caps and both boys enjoyed wearing them. :)

The actual birthday day included flag football playoffs, naps and a lovely evening with friends. We ate at our favorite Mexican restaurant, Fiesta Tapatia, had ice cream cake specially made for E by Coldstone Creamery and ended the evening with a nightcap at Bar Louie's. Along with friends, Shane & Nic and Darrin & Carrie (and Baby Grace :) ), Eric was surprised by friends from Indy, Kevin & Jen and Matt. We had great conversation, lots of laughs and were honored to have these amazing people share E's night with us. Thank you all, we love you!

A fun birthday pic with the special cake (that is cookie dough chunks on top....OF COURSE)...

Happy Birthday Eric!

2011-10-15T09:06:00.000-07:00

To my wonderful husband, closest friend and baby daddy :)...

HAPPY 38th!!!

Isaiah's Thought

2011-09-14T19:34:00.000-07:00

A "Thought on Quinn" by Isaiah (to my sister Kristin). . .

Isaiah: "Yeah, he's bad . . . I see him behind bars someday."

Really?

The Older They Get...

2011-09-13T19:32:00.000-07:00

My baby ran for Student council. Is he really old enough to be running for Student Council? I feel incredibly ancient.

Like Father, Like Son

2011-09-01T17:40:00.000-07:00

Summer with the Troyer's, Part 1

2011-08-23T19:30:00.000-07:00

Summer with the Troyer's, Part 2

2011-08-23T17:23:00.000-07:00

Visit to G'ma Sue

2011-08-22T07:53:00.000-07:00

We went to see Eric's mom, "Gma Sue" in Mitchell, Indiana the first weekend of August. We hadn't been down there for almost 5 years so this was Q's first trip there. While getting to Mitchell is not much fun (5 hour drive with a cranky, impatient 2 year old and a slightly less impatient 9 year old), we enjoyed our time visiting different places and spending time with family.

We stayed with E's mom and her sister, Aunt Joyce who selflessly gave up her bed for us and spent the weekend with their other sister, Aunt Pat. We spent time with the 3 of them, E's Grandma Haymaker and with his Uncle Bob, Aunt Marla and Brian Ray (cousin).

There is a State park about 10 minutes away that hosts a swimming pool, the Gus Grissom museum and a Pioneer Village. On Friday we took the boys swimming (it was really hot) at the State Park (I think it was called Spring Mill), took naps and then headed back for more fun. G'ma Sue was excited to show Isaiah the Gus Grissom Museum. Gus was born and raised in Mitchell and went on to become a famous astronaut. He ended up dying in the faulty explosion of a spaceship before being able to participate in the mission that resulted in walking on the moon :( Isaiah really enjoyed it and thought the best part was seeing the real cockpit from a shuttle that Gus flew in.
After the museum we headed to the Pioneer Village (much like Sauters for you Ohioans although set in hilly nature where the original village once stood). It was fun and the boys enjoyed it until the ridiculous heat (did I mention that it was really hot?) got the best of all of us. I think their favorite part was the homemade, pioneer toys and G'ma bought them several of their favorites like Jacob's ladder and the twirly "Hooey" stick to bring home.
On Saturday we spent the day hanging out. That afternoon we went to see E's Grandma Haymaker and ate dinner with her and the rest of the family. While in her apartment, Q found a life-like doll that he held and rocked. Although I find life like dolls slightly disturbing because they are so real (obviously why they are called "life like" :) ), he was absolutely adorable while taking "care of her." We then made the 5 hour trek home on Sunday. Of course, my camera made several appearances :) much to the dismay of many, but to the enjoyment of others! :)

Mr.Chandler

2011-08-21T16:21:00.001-07:00

This is E's FIRST, 1st day of 1st grade! :) (BTW, in true E fashion...he is wearing Nike's that say Mr. on one foot and Chandler on the other!)

As most know, he took over a 1st grade classroom January of this year and was excited to find out that he got to stay in the same classroom for this school year. What was new was that he had to get everything ready to "open" his classroom...back to school night, new curriculum, new students, new plans. Everything was "his" for this year and MAN, was it stressful the few weeks before school started. I will say that I NEVER NEVER NEVER realized how much work had to be put into school things BEFORE school started and DURING the next few weeks. It is crazy!

Anyway, besides being slightly stressed, I think E is enjoying it while trying to acclimate to all the changes. Here is Mr. Chandler :)

My beloved boys...

2011-08-20T16:36:00.000-07:00

Back to School...AGAIN

2011-08-19T15:50:00.000-07:00

A few pics from Isaiah's 1st day of 4th grade! He's getting so old.....

For the record: our little tradition is that I take Izzy to school on the first day. We stopped for breakfast (annual tradition) and got muffins and donuts (zzy's choice) and then I walked back with him to his classroom. Once in the classroom, I realized I was only one of 2 parents there and recognized that this would probably be the last year I would be "allowed" to come in with him. No fear, I did soak in every moment of him being okay with me there! Here's my handsome boy....

Summer visits to Ohio

2011-08-15T15:45:00.000-07:00

Alas, summer is coming to an end...school for us will be starting tomorrow. :( I have blogged a little about different things we've done over the summer but soooo much has been left out! We weren't able to go on any long family trips but have done little things throughout the summer. We spent quite a bit of time in Ohio this summer due to events going on...birthdays for Leegan (4th), Kristin (21st!!), Scott & Seth, Paula and Brent! (this doesn't even include E's dad who also has a bday in July!). We spent time with my girlfriends from high school and at the annual bball tourney (more to follow about that one :) ). The vidoes are just reflextive of time spent in Ohio as many of our other activities are in different blogs. Anyway, HAPPY SUMMER to all and WELCOME BACK TO SCHOOL! :)

Fireworks

2011-07-31T15:38:00.000-07:00

As some of you may know...I have a new camera that I love, love, love...AND it has a firework setting!!!

July 4th!

2011-07-06T17:09:00.000-07:00

This year we spent July 4th on Silver Beach in Michigan with our dear friends, Mike, Ranee and their brood. Long story made EXTREMELY short....it was unbelievably hot, there was a ridiculous amount of people there, we had a good time and I ended up with sun poisoning on my legs (who knew you could get burnt on your legs while running around after a 2 year old?). 2 days after our day in the sun, I was swollen, couldn't walk on my right leg, E made fun of me and I had to get a shot. Of course, I took a ton of pics but here are just a few of the boys having fun :)

(We call this the "Uncle Scott & Seth hair")

Happy Father's Day

2011-06-20T16:53:00.000-07:00

For Fathers day this year we met my family at Cheddars in Ft Wayne for lunch. We had a good time and as always, I made everyone pose for fun pics outside the restaurant. (They'll appreciate it in the long run....)

Dad with all his good kids :)

Scott and Leegan

Seth and Chloe

The Many Faces of Isaiah

2011-04-15T19:59:00.000-07:00

...he's my more serious one....(that's his dad in him)

Indy- Part III

2011-04-13T19:29:00.000-07:00

So remember in Part II how I said I was going to attempt to "post as we go"? Yeah. That didn't really work although I believe I gave it a good faith effort :)

Anyway, the last part of our trip was to Carribean Cove, an indoor water park at the Holiday Inn in Indy....10 mintues from Tom & Dori's house. It's a similar idea to Kalahari or Great Wolf Lodge only smaller. (we have 2 young kids who didn't know the difference :) ) Isaiah was living large and thought it was the greatest thing ever. Quinn and I enjoyed ourselves although he wore out earlier than I thought he would on the whole water thing. E...well he pretty much sat and watched. I would say he didn't like it but sometimes he likes kicking back so I guess you'd have to ask him what he thought about our time there. The boys also enjoyed our time in the hotel room...wrestling, playing DS and Q spent an inordinate amount of time playing with paper plates and plastic cups. Who knew?

Q thinking he's big....

Getting ready to go swimming...Q kept wanting to take pics,saying "cheese"

Me and Q on the lazy river while Izzy went down the body tubes over and over and over...

Indy, Part II

2011-04-09T06:24:00.000-07:00

After the zoo, we spent the evening with our friends Tom, Jen & Kevin and their son, Nolan. Nolan is 5 months younger than Quinn and quite a friendly and lovey little guy...too bad Quinn was NOT feelin' the love back until the end of the night. Kevin grilled dinner for us and we spent time talking, watching the babes play and Isaiah hoopin' it up on the Wii. I am realizing now that the only pics I took were of the kids so I guess you will just have to imagine the adults being there :) Quinn (2yo) and Nolan (19 mo) Nolan trying to give Q hugs although he wasn't very responsive...

Q spent about 1/2 hour reading...to himself and Nolan (who listened very intently). Very cute.

Nolan giving Izzy some love.

Quinn finally lovin' back! :)

Our Family Trip to Indy

2011-04-09T06:01:00.001-07:00

We decided to take a short family trip to Indy to take advantage of E and Izzy being on Spring break (some of us still had to work but took a day off :( ). I thought I would try and post as we go....we'll see how that goes! So our first day was staying at our friends, Tom & Dori's home and the Indy Zoo! Unfortunately, Dori was out of town the whole weekend and we missed seeing her...but Tom was a gracious host. Here are some pics from yesterday afternoon... petting sharks, E's fave animal (bats :) ), Izzy racing a cheetah and some random ones...

Cheeeese

2011-03-13T19:32:00.001-07:00

Quinn was unexpectedly in the mood to pose for pics and kept saying "cheeeeese" so I took advantage. :) Just a couple of my faves... (and I happened to be trying out my different "color" options :) )

I'M BA-AAACK....

2011-03-06T18:34:00.000-08:00

Obviously I have been missing for quite some time and I am hoping that there are still people out there that check on us and are waiting with bated breath to find out how our lives are going....

Anyway, we are crazy busy. E finished school, started working as a first grade teacher, is completely overwhelmed with testing and report cards right now but I think starting to like it?!?!?! I work alot but spend the rest of the time with my kiddos, doing yoga and having random dinners with some amazing girlfriends. Isaiah is playing bball, doing excellently in 3rd grade (with a teacher that is a bit difficult sometimes) and being a FANTASTIC big brother. Quinn is a "hot mess" but stinkin' adorable when doing it which isn't always the best mix. He is ornery, LOVES to dance (some day I'll have time to figure out how to post it) and gives us a run for our money.

Here are some of the newer pics of our family....I will hopefully follow with a few more of my boys in a couple of days.

the "Look"

A wrestling match...Q may be able to take Izzy soon!?!

I don't think he's "smiling," I think he's "showing you his teeth" :)

Chandler Christmas Card for 2010!

2010-12-08T20:34:00.000-08:00

Here is our Christmas card for 2010. I haven't sent one for several years and usually just send to far-away friends...so....I am apologizing now if you don't receive one and here it is for all to enjoy!

We love you and wish you all a very Merry Christmas filled with the amazing knowledge that the baby Jesus was born this season and in Him we have hope!

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Gone Again

2010-11-15T19:08:00.000-08:00

A couple of weeks after I returned from the DR and I find myself gone again. I am in Indy for work training for 3 days. Left yesterday eve (sun) and will be home on Wed eve. It was a little harder this time around...probably because it wasn't something I had been looking forward to for the past 7 years. Actually, wasn't really looking forward to it at all :(

Anyway, I am here with a co-worker so that makes it a little better since at least I am not eating alone! After being a little pouty last night (by myself) about how lonely it seemed and how bored I thought I might be, I realized that I need to just appreciate the time I have alone. Why wouldn't I appreciate the time alone? There are so many things I can do...yoga, devotions, read a book , play computer games, blog, facebook, sleep, eat.

So, I have spent quiet time doing devotions, I have done yoga, I have played a couple of games on the computer and I have listened to relaxing music as I feel asleep. I have also talked to my babes and eaten some pretty yummy Thai food so far. :)

While I am trying to appreciate this time, I will be happy to be back with my boys soon.

Humbled

2010-11-08T19:27:00.000-08:00

After 7 long years waiting, I finally went on a missions trip with my church to the Dominican Republic. The whole thing happened because of my wonderful husband...he knew that I wanted, needed to go on this trip and not only set it up for me but sent out letters and graciously watched our two boys with NO complaints about how it would affect his school stuff.

All this said, it was a humbling experience. Amazing but humbling. I would love to share more and I plan to but right now I can honestly say that I am still processing it all. (and how do you begin to pick what pics to show when there is a separate story behind every single one?)

What I did learn among other things is that I have an amazing husband and children, I have an amazing family and I have amazing friends. I am thankful for all of them, even when I don't show it.

Cuddling

2010-11-06T20:46:00.001-07:00

Just lovin' my babes. :)

Happy Fall and Trick or Treating!

2010-11-02T20:09:00.000-07:00

We had a fun packed weekend...we met some friends at a hayride/haunted forest that was held at a local fire department. Had NO clue the hundreds of people that would show up and stood in line for ONE AND A HALF HOURS to ride this hayride thing in the freezing cold that went through the haunted forest. As we were finally getting on to the wagon, Q had a melt-down and was apparently scared of the wagon. Sigh. I waited in the building until they got back. :(The next day Isaiah decorated pumpkins he had picked out with a friend of ours (Heather). It's so fun to watch him be creative...he also decided to make Quinn's fun. :) I think they turned out well.Followed our annual tradition and went to our friends, Amy and Brian, house...hung out with them and their girls, Isabel and Claire. It was the first year for Quinn. I had found this adorable spider costume at Goodwill and hoped he would actually wear it. E didn't think Q would enjoy it...as soon as he realized he got candy he wanted to go up to every house. :) Unfortunately he also took his sweet time wandering from house to house and often decided to take detours. They had a great time! Happy trick or treating!

Happy 37th Birthday!

2010-10-15T11:39:00.000-07:00

Eric,

To an amazing father, husband, brother, son, and friend. I know I am leaving you this year for the DR and I thank you so much for your selflessness in allowing me to go! Thank you for working so hard for your family and for the time you make to spend with us even though school has you insanely busy. We love you!

Outside Fun Again

2010-10-04T12:40:00.000-07:00

Fun and pain...
The other day I took the boys to the park which is about 5 blocks from our house so very convenient. Quinn enjoys playing on the playground while Isaiah goes to the skatepark that is right beside it. He is really trying to be some kind of "extreme" sports dude and this time he took his Razor and even wore his kneepads in preparation.

So while I snapped cute pics of Q playing, Isaiah was practicing his skills. Here is a long story made short...
He successfully conquered the large ramp on his Razor.
Razor snapped at the bottom, Izzy fell back on tailbone and caught himself with his elbow.
Holding back tears so he didn't look wimpy, he sat on the bench waiting for me to come over.
I found him very pale, limping in pain and sick to his stomach.
Started walking home and had to call E (calmly) because I thought maybe he was going to faint (and I still had Q and stroller).
Laid on couch nursing a very swollen elbow/forearm and feeling sick most of the evening.
Couldn't put pressure on arm for next 2 days so advised to have xrays done because of the nearness to his elbow.
Xrays fine. Whew.

This story told, here are some cute pics from that day until it went bad and some from this morning when the boys were playing outside together. Aren't they cute?

My Singing Q

2010-10-03T12:24:00.000-07:00

Quinn loves to sing...and loudly I might add.

Goodbyes and Bonfires

2010-10-02T08:33:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was a crazy day for us. We had a goodbye dinner with a good friend, Angie. She worked with us at Oaklawn and recently accepted a job at another agency. :( E has been friends with her for a long time and when I started my job, I found myself in an office across the hall which has provided endless amusement and laughter... (I forgot my camera so I didnt' get any pics but I'm not sure she would have let me post any pics of her anyway so I guess it's all good...)

GOOD LUCK ANGIE!

After the dinner, we then had to book it to Eastwood's (Izzy's school) annual bonfire. My camera was dying so I took pics randomly and hoped they turned out....the school has small bonfires all over the payground for families to sit and conversate. They also have a DJ that the kids LOVE and hot chocolate, cookies and glow sticks. It was cold and spinkled off and on which made it slightly miserable for us but the kids didn't seem to mind. Isaiah spent him time playing catch with E, Quinn and being chased by girls with his friend, Ethan. Quinn spent his time running around amusing himself while chasing a football and playing on the playground. We spent our time talking with friends, chasing Q, being rained on, chasing Q and then chasing Q some more. :)

Peace Maker

2010-09-29T18:47:00.000-07:00

Today was the 1st awards assembly of the year and Isaiah was given an award for "Peace maker." Since his 3rd grade year didn't start out so smoothly (let's just say, 4th day in and a trip to the principal's office...nothing serious but not the greatest way to start...) I am extra proud that he has been able to turn it around!

Thoughts

2010-09-20T15:00:00.000-07:00

When I worked at the jail I had this really cool saying that hung on the wall in my office. Since then I have looked everywhere under the sun (in boxes) to find it to no avail. Found it on my flash drive today. It is now hanging in my current office.

Watch your thoughts...they become your words

Watch your words...they become your actions

Watch you actions...they become your habits

Watch your habits...they become your character

Watch your character...It becomes your destiny

My Beautiful Babes

2010-09-19T14:57:00.000-07:00

It's a Robber, it's a caped avenger, it's a gloved hero...

2010-09-18T14:49:00.000-07:00

...It's ISAIAH! :)

Fun in the Chandler House

2010-09-06T14:28:00.000-07:00

So a running joke between dad and I is how exciting my weekends are now that I am "old with kids." It's amazing sometimes that I am in bed before my parents...it's also amazing what amuses me for long periods of time now that we don't get to go out just because we feel like it! Many times it is my kids and their silliness. This is where I found myself one random Sunday evening. Eric and the boys amused themselves (and of course me) FOREVER with the following fun...

1st Day(s)!!

2010-08-17T17:48:00.000-07:00

For two of my babes :) It was the first day of school today...E in his student teaching adventure and Isaiah in third grade! E looked handsome and ready to go. He is teaching a 2nd grade class the first half of the semester and a 6th grade class during the last half.

As our annual tradition, Isaiah and I went out for breakfast before his first day. We picked Martin's supermarket for their yummy donuts and muffins. He let me take a few pics in his classroom and then I left to get to work.

I did have a momentary tear as I walked out of the building and then thought...good grief, it's third grade?! I mean, I understand tearful departures for Kindergarten and maybe even first grade but seriously, THIRD grade? It was one of those moments I was glad neither he nor Eric were there. :) Anyway, I guess it was the fact that my babe is just so big and brave and handsome...

GOOD LUCK THIS YEAR BOYS!!!!

Aren't they unbelievably handsome!?!?!?!?!

Outside Summer Fun

2010-08-16T18:36:00.000-07:00

While we didn't really get to take a family trip this year, we have had alot of outside fun. We have been to a friend's house at a lake in Michigan, to the pool more times than we can count, on walks, to several playgrounds, in our back yard and to my family reunion.

Both the boys LOVE LOVE LOVE the water which is fun but a little tiring on the Q-end :( He has no fear so there is alot of chasing that goes on to ensure that he doesn't drown while trying to drink the water. Isaiah has become quite an adept swimmer and enjoys anytime he can get in some kind of water. It's been so hot that we have even gotten E to go with us to the pool a couple of times...which is awesome! (you would appreciate this more if you realized how much he prefers to stay where the air is conditioned :) :) )

In looking at my pics I am a little saddened by my lack of gusto with the picture taking this summer. There are so many things and places I didn't get on camera :( Sigh. I guess you will just have to enjoy what I did remember to capture.

Anyway, I thought it would be fun to make a little slideshow of some fun times outside...

My Little Tornado

2010-08-14T17:58:00.000-07:00

A tornado. A whirlwind. A rascal. A monkey. A path of terror. It never ends...

but at least he's cute doing it :)

My Garden now...

2010-08-06T18:36:00.000-07:00

or as of July 25th....yeah for me :)

Basketball Tourney!

2010-08-02T18:57:00.000-07:00

First tourney in several years!

The boys (Scott and Seth), Eric and our friend, Rick played in a 3-on-3 tournament in Lima on July 31st. Scott came up with the creative name of the "Tramblers" which was a combination of the three last names playing (Troyer, Chandler and Ambers). Loved it! There were several years that they did this every summer either in Elkhart or somwhere in Lima and was alot of fun for the family to watch. It's been quite awhile so it was pretty exciting to have them enter again.

They played in humidity, then there was pouring rain, then it was unbelievable hot, direct sun. They played against some decent guys and then against the man we only know as "Steroid man" who was just as mean to his own teammates as he was while elbowing the opponents. He was horrible and E had to hush me several times when I felt my opinion should be spoken. :) It was double elimination and even though they were disappointed, the rest of us were proud when they won THIRD place out of everyone.

Congrats boys!

Summer Swimming

2010-06-29T18:03:00.000-07:00

With summer comes the annual swimming lessons. Last year both Isaiah and Quinn took lessons...this year I didn't put Q in because I figured I learned enough last year to do things with him myself. Anyway, Isaiah moved up a level and was able to learn new strokes (butterfly, dolphin and the frog kick). Needless to say, he felt pretty cool and worked really hard this summer. He also got to learn how to dive. I was rather proud. :)

learning to take a breath during the Butterfly

the Butterfly

Little-est Beautiful Sister

2010-06-15T17:52:00.000-07:00

So my baby sister graduated this year. Again, I am writing quite late but I want to post how proud I am of her. She chose to give a Senior recital where she performed both piano and trumpet followed by a reception with tasty finger food made by mom.

Mego,

you are such an amazingly talented lady with such a huge, huge heart!

You are a fabulous aunt, sister and daughter.

We love you!

10 on 5.20!!!

2010-06-05T19:35:00.000-07:00

MAY 20, 2010

(I'm writing a little late....)

Happy Anniversary to us! It has been 10 years since marrying my dear husband. Thankfully I can say that we are stronger and closer than ever.

I will say that marriage is hard, I guess, more that it takes an amazing amount of work. Some days it feels like we just met just yesterday and some days it feels like it has been forever! Now, 2 beautiful children later, many ups and downs (and I do mean many), lots of tears and even more laughter...we are still working through it.

I love you Eric!

Q and his G'pa

2010-05-27T20:10:00.001-07:00

'Nuff said. :)

New old things

2010-05-26T19:37:00.000-07:00

I distinctly remember running around under a sprinkler with a garbage bag on that had holes cut out for my head and arms. (I think I might have been pretending I was a princess...) I also remember a bright yellow slip-n-slide. I don't remember if we just threw ourselves on the slide or if we did something more creative.

All this being said, Brent and Bridget gave Isaiah a new version of the slip-n-slide for a gift. It was finally hot enough to use it. Izzy loved it and he was quite entertaining to watch. I do wish for the days when I would be brave enough to jump on the little blow up boogie board that came with it and slide down the bright yellow fun-ness. As it was, I sat on the chair and watched, occassionally taking pictures. Oh, to be young again.

I'm growing things...or going to be...

2010-05-24T19:33:00.000-07:00

So once again my fabulous parents (and sister) helped me achieve increased domesticity. For the past couple of years I have desired a garden but have a horrible yard for it. We get very little direct sunlight on most of it and pine trees drop pounds of needles on the rest.

My thought was that maybe a small raised-bed garden would be do-able. Anyway, after talking about it last summer and this spring...my dearest mother made my father make it happen :) (do you understand that???)

We actually had quite a packed weekend. Isaiah had Grandparents Day at school and he wanted G'ma and G'pa Troyer to come to his school with him so he called and asked them. Dad decided that they would come up the night before and help build my garden. Little did I know the work this would entail. Eric knew even less. :) As he was helping dad rip up sod, jump on a shovel and shovel in piles of dirt, he looked at me and said, "you got me...you got me good this time." He then went to work the next day and proceeded to tell everyone how I had fooled him into thinking we were going to build a "cute little garden." While there was never any attempts to trick him, he truly wants to believe there was. In reality, I had no idea how much work it would take.

Regardless of E's belief, my garden turned out awesome. I planted 2 tomatoes, 1 yellow bell pepper, 1 jalepeno plant, a mound of cucumbers and a mound of zuchini. It is awesome. Thanks mom, dad, Eric (and Mego for watching Q while it was happening). It was a great weekend! On a side note...they stayed two nights! They never stay two nights!

The February Recap

2010-04-27T19:40:00.000-07:00

Our February was FULL! So much to say...the slideshows might be a little long but so worth it (in my opinion of course) to see all that was going on.

The first slideshow is of Isaiah's 8th Birthday! Our baby is 8! Can you believe it? He is such an amazing kid...he is growing like a monster, is a fantastic big brother and is so incredibly loving and soft hearted. We are so blessed to have him.

He chose to have a few friends over for a slumber party, they enjoyed pizza and a sundae bar for dessert. They crashed out on the living room floor watching a movie and were up and ready to roll earlier than I would have guessed the next morning :)

This next slideshow is the rest of our crazy February...the first few pics are just of the boys and Quinn at 10 months old. Feb.10th was Chloe's birthday (our niece) and we enjoyed fun in the snow in Ohio. We took a little weekend family trip to Indy where we visited our friends, Kevin, Jen & Nolan and Dory & Tom. Unfortunately I realizes later that I only thought totake pics when the babes were playing. Sorry Dory & Tom. :( Kevin and Jen offered to watch Quinn while we took Isaiah to the Children's Museum as a surprise. We had a great time but didn't get any pics there either since when we walked in the door I realized the camera battery was completely dead. Sigh. Oh well, I guess we always have memories.....

Our January

2010-04-26T19:17:00.000-07:00

Here are some pics from the rest of our January....

Happy 1st birthday, Quinn!

2010-04-02T19:33:00.000-07:00

Happy 1st Birthday Quinn!!!

My poor baby was so incredibly sick and miserable for his first birthday and all of Easter weekend. :( He was running a fever and barely maintained so I didn't get many good pics...BUT...

QUINN,

what a surprise you were and what a blessing you are! From your perfect smile to your crazy, wild hair, you are amazing. God knew we needed you in our family...to brighten us with your laughter and silliness and to keep us on our toes with your spunk.

We love you!

Daddy, Momma, Isaiah (and Jeb)

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

2010-01-03T19:49:00.000-08:00

2010 is here. Craziness.

This year we spent the evening with our friends, Shane & Nichole. Isaiah spent the night at his friend's house and we took Quinn with us. We started the evening by serenading Shane for his birthday...(yes, he is a NY's baby: the debate would be, do you always get jipped on your bday if it is NYW or is it cool because there is always something going on?) Anyway, we ate a ton of food, played cards, talked, laughed hysterically and had a fabulous time. We enjoyed getting to know S&N's good friends, Jen & Rick and their 2 kids. It was a wonderful, low-key way to bring in the New Year with people we have come to love and cherish!

Football Fun

2009-12-30T19:52:00.000-08:00

As stated in previous blog, there was some football being played while the snow was falling. I could have included it with the whole "Troyer Christmas" entry, but I thought the boys deserved their own little post. I thought the one with E blocking the boys while Isaiah made a run for it was priceless! So....these are just for pure enjoyment. :)

Victory for S & S

Isaiah running for it while his dad runs a mean defense....

Troyer Christmas 2009!

2009-12-30T19:01:00.000-08:00

As I put in blogs previous...I was very excited for Christmas this year. The Troyer family Christmas was no exception...it was such a wonderful weekend! It's crazy what a difference little children make. Even though 2 of these children have no idea that it was Christmas, they won't remember it nor did they care about their gifts; it was just so much fun to watch Isaiah, Leegan, Chloe and Quinn opening gifts, eating wrapping paper, dancing around and in general having a great time. I think it just somehow changes perspective for everyone. In my opinion, the best present of the year was the PJ's G'ma made for all the grandkids. They were adorable! She made little pants and bboty/slippers in matching fabric for the boys and matching fabric for the girls. I'm not sure Quinn really cares at this point but Isaiah didn't take them off for an entire day once we were home!

We went home for a long weekend. Last year we started a tradition of the men cooking Christmas dinner/lunch. It went so well we thought it should continue (at least the women did), so continue it did! Meanwhile, the ladies left the house, went out for coffee and a bagel and played some word games at Panera. Once again, the men did a fabulous job and we ate more than we needed to! We also celebrated Brent's completion of college with a cake and some singing! (CONGRATS BRENT! We are very proud of you!) We spent the evening opening presents, playing "4 on a couch" (much to the dismay of Scott & Seth who were not fans), "Would you Rather?" and other games. The rest of the weekend was spent playing games, eating more food, watching movies, football outside, sledding and just being together.

I love you family!

Our Christmas with TWO babes!

2009-12-28T19:29:00.000-08:00

To us a Child of Hope is Born!

So with all going on this season, I did not get any Christmas cards made, sent or even planned. That said, the top pic is what you're getting via my blog. :) Merry Christmas!
We had a wonderful time this year...even though Quinn did not care much about the whole hullabaloo, it was so much fun to have two babes this Christmas. Although we kept most of our traditions, there were a few minor changes: we did order pizza from E's favorite pizza place but we weren't able to go to a Candlelight service (no times that we found could work with Quinn's crank night-time self and his bedtime). We always read the Christmas story but this year Isaiah did it! While he probably didn't think much of it, I was so proud I could have burst. He is so grown up. We then opened presents (the part Isaiah was waiting for :) ). It was an amazing night together. Thank you God for sending us Your Son!

My Basketball Star

2009-12-15T19:21:00.000-08:00

Q and daddy watching the game...

Going up for a jumpshot (and he made it :) )

Shootin' from the Left...

Defense!

What a dribbler!

Basketball is now over and I feel remorse that I couldn't post any of these sooner....

Isaiah had a very difficult coach this year. While he was a little abrasive for my taste, he also recognized the talent of several boys on our team (including Isaiah) and pushed them to do their very best. He worked with them on the fundamentals and we saw a TON of improvement from Isaiah! We are so proud of you Isaiah!

8 months!

2009-12-07T18:20:00.001-08:00

Yes, yes....I skipped month 7. Almost missed month 8 but here I am. :)
Quinn is a tank. He is long, long, long and getting some chunk-a-licious legs. While you may not appreciate my pics...I couldn't resist. You just gotta love baby bottoms. He is now pulling himself up, over and around everything. I blame his cousin Chloe for teaching him this trick on one of the visits to our house. He became adept rather quickly at it and now there is no stopping him. He puts everything he can find into his mouth and snots and drools on everything (not the most pleasant picture I know...it's not much more pleasant in person...) Quinn continues to be a talker and noise maker and can laugh like no other. He is sleeping better and for the most part sleeps through the night. But again, you never really know.
It feels like he eats non-stop and is starting to do well with finger (okay, more like "hand" or "fist") foods. Quinn loves his bath time...we have now moved him to the tub and he leans so far out of his little bath chair that he sticks his face in the water. He attempts to crawl out and when we have let him out he does everything he can to try and go on his own. This is going to be the kid I can't leave alone to do anything. Sigh. He continues to adore Isaiah and I still believe his favorite person in the world is Eric. He does prefer me when he wants to cuddle or be coddled (or eat the good stuff) but Eric really just makes the whole world better. :)

2009-12-01T18:05:00.000-08:00

WOW! I have not posted in what feels like forever! Soooooo...I will spend the next couple of posts trying to catch up on some of the more exciting events as of late in the Chandler household.

Isaiah had a Thanksgiving celebration at his school a couple of Wednesdays ago. There was a carry-in for the 2nd graders and any their guests. The kids were either Indians or Pigrims and made their own costumes. It was very cute, there was yummy food and this event again made me SO thankful for the switch we made to this school. The parent involvement, the encouragement to be a part of our child's education and the opportunities to participate in things like this. Yeah Eastwood!

Ode to Isaiah

2009-11-19T13:22:00.000-08:00

Isaiah loves taking pictures. He had a camera which, for the life of any of us, cannot be found. Anyway, randomly cleaning the office a month ago I found our old camera that we thought no longer worked (in our defense it didn't work at one point) but somehow now works?!??!!? So I gave it to Isaiah. He now continually takes pictures. And I do mean continually. He takes them of the most random things and events. He takes a million of the same thing. His newest thing is he acts as though he is a spy and takes pictures from every angle from where he is hiding and thinks we don't know he is there. He does this mainly with Quinn who I'm pretty sure has no idea what is going on other than his brother is running around (thinking he is quiet but isn't) taking pictures and giggling to himself.

When the memory card is full I load the pics on the computer and he deletes them off the camera and it starts over again. As I was looking through them this time I realized he really does take some good pictures. He also takes some very unflattering ones (which I didn't include :) ) and he takes really random ones....much more random than I even thought. For example, he had a picture of every angle and every item in his room. He has more self-portraits of himself with everyone and everything than you can imagine. This he got from his father...word of advice, never let your camera sit un-tended with Eric around).

So I decided to put a little slide show together of some of his most recent photography. He really is very creative and I hope this encourages him to continue being unique and random and inspired and observant. I love you Isaiah!

Our Do-Nothing Day

2009-11-14T18:10:00.000-08:00

For those out there who know...yes, a tribute to Phineas and Ferb. :)

Eric didn't work, the day was beautiful and we were together as a family. We went to Isaiah's bball game, out to eat, came home and took a nap. Blessed nap. We then got up, Quinn and I watched Isaiah and E play some bball, ate pizza and watched a movie. What an awesome do-nothing day! (and I didn't even feel guilty).

Troyer Family Weekend

2009-11-10T13:35:00.000-08:00

So more on this past weekend...dad, mom, Megan and my niece Leegan came up early on Saturday, caught Isaiah's bball game and then spent the day helping us "fix" things. I know I have paid tribute to my wonderfully handy father in the past and again, THANK YOU DAD! Several projects were completed, mom raked some leaves and Megan kept both Isaiah and Leegan quite occupied in leaf piles. We could not have asked for better weather...it was absolutely beautiful!

Brent and Bridget came up later that evening and spent the night. Seth, Joy, Chloe, Paula and Scott all met us at church the next morning to be a part of Quinn's dedication. After church we all went out to lunch...while quite yummy, it took about 1 hour to get ORDER our food, another hour to actually get it and pay for it. Not the best experience but we were together as a family so...

Some stuck around for the afternoon and evening just talking and spending time together. I know I said it in my previous blog but I'm so truly grateful to have the amazing family that I do. Sometimes it is hard to find words to express it and I'm sure I don't say it enough to the people who need to hear it. I guess that's probably true for many of us. I do love all of you and am soooo thankful that you all chose to spend your time with us this weekend! To top it all off...when everyone left and I went upstairs, I realized that mom had cleaned up everyone's bedding, put things back in order and did the dishes! I have no idea when she found time to do this but I loved it! YOU ROCK! :)

Dedication

2009-11-09T13:20:00.000-08:00

Sunday we had Quinn dedicated at church. The entire family came to be a part of it. That's really the complete story very shortened.

I write this because after the weekend and in different comments made by a friend of mine...I realize how very, very blessed we are. My entire family came (with the exception of Kristin who is in college and had to stay there). My parents, every sibling, their spouse/significant other and their children. How awesome is that?! How amazing is it that they all made time this weekend to drive 2 1/2 hours to watch our baby be dedicated in a 15 minute ceremony?! While I am pretty sure I did not adequately express my gratitude or thankfulness for their time spent with us, I'm not sure there are words that would encompass the blessing I felt. I do have a wonderfully, fabulously unique and amazing family. I love you all...dad, mom, Seth, Joy, Chloe, Scott, Paula, Leegan, Brent, Bridget, Kristin (we missed you) and Megan!

Jobless No More

2009-11-02T19:09:00.000-08:00

...okay, technically I have a job but don't start until December.

So...I will try to be concise:

last Friday: randomly receive phone call asking for interview
Monday: interview for 1st position
Monday afternoon: receive offer for this position, request time to talk it over with E
Tuesday: receive 2nd random phone call requesting interview in same company, different dept.
Wednesday: have interview with 2nd dept.
Thursday: lots of waiting
Friday morning: receive offer for 2nd position and ACCEPT!
Later Friday morning: off to my fabulous Old Navy sale feeling very good :)

So more on the story is that I would have enjoyed the 1st position offered but it was a supervisory position (I do love being in charge :) :) :) ) so there would have been more stress involved with scheduling and covering shifts. I was freaking out a little because I don't want to go back to work. Then I received the 2nd offer. This position will be a little more flexible, more money, it's pretty autonomous and it feels like it will work better for our family.

God does work in mysterious ways. There was a reason I was freaking out and feeling unsure. God opened another door. While I still don't want to go to work, unfortunately this isn't an option. Unemployment is going to eventually run out, jobs are few and far between and E needs to finish school. I do not want to leave my boys and am struggling immensely with this. I have enjoyed this time more than I can even begin to tell you. I LOVE BEING AT HOME! BUT. I do believe God is making a way...He had the timing worked out. He had a plan. He allowed us to make it this long when I never thought we would be able to. I will have had eight months with Quinn and 11 months with Isaiah. Nothing is going to make leaving my boys any easier. That said, I feel a peace about the job decision and at this point I think that is the most I can hope for.

Old Navy or Bust

2009-11-01T18:53:00.001-08:00

On Friday (the 30th) I had quite the whopping day. All week I had been waiting for the sale of all sales. The first 50 customers to Old Navy (love it) would receive 50% off (of everything!). I just knew I could do it. This is why I wasn't working...God allowed me to be available and present just for this kind of sale. He knows I am financially challenged and that my son needs a new winter coat! My plan was to leave at 9:15a to get there in plenty of time.

The morning started well...Quinn and I were on a schedule and it was working. At 9:10am (of course) I received a phone call. I was OFFERED A JOB! (1st great thing to happen) Actually that is another story so will come later. Anyway, couldn't rush the HR man off the phone so ended up leaving later than planned. Pulled up to ON with 5 minutes to spare and a view of a million people standing in line outside the doors. By this time a light sprinkle had started and I decided that since I wasn't going to be the first 50 I would wait in the car with Quinn. Then I rethought and figured by the time I got the babe out of the car and walked up there it would be almost time to go in. So, got everything out (including Q) and lugged our happy selves to the line. The lady was walking down the line handing out cloth bags...I was the LAST ONE to receive a bag. I WAS THE 50th CUSTOMER! (2nd great thing to happen) Yee-haw for me! Woo-hoo and all that! Could the day get any better?! I was a sale hunter!

Anyway, a couple of hours later and I was a happy lady. Q was not so happy but it was time he took one for the team. I went for two main items, a winter coat for Isaiah and a sweater I had been eye-balling for longer than I would like to tell you. I got both (and some Christmas shopping).(3rd great thing to happen) AND, not only did I get the 50% off but everything was marked on sale! It was quite the stupendous morning.

Disco Dude

2009-10-31T15:48:00.000-07:00

This year Isaiah informed me he wanted to be a "Disco Guy." Beyond the afro I had no idea where to start. Apparently costume places believed that children only want to be cartoon characters, superheros or cowboys...not disco people. 2 Goodwills and 1 Salvation Army later and the only hope I had was a burgundy velvet top. Where are the polyester pants? Where are the nasty, polyester, butterfly collar shirts that old men like to wear? So, I got creative and this is what came out of it. Thank you G'ma Troyer for the basic lessons in sewing :)(and I had a little practice while attending Goshen College...). When he saw it, Isaiah announced "the shirt is like a king and those pants are awesome!" Yes, made a mother proud. Anyway, he received lots of compliments while trick-or-treating and several times had to chase his afro in a yard because the wind was a bit ferocious.

We went trick-or-treating with our good friends, the Pauleys again...I believe this is the 4th year?!?!?!? Isaiah, Claire and Isabel enjoyed the time and afterwards while hopped up on sugar and some caffeine, they wrestled which was quite amusing. Quinn enjoyed his time (forgot to take a pic of him) just chilling in the stroller watching everyone go by. There was no costume as I didn't want to spend the money and it will come soon enough. Eventually it was too cold and he got fussy so the men headed back to the house with the babe and the dog (likely excuses...) and us women continued to brave the cold for our children's benefits. What a great time!

Water keeps dripping on my floor...la la lala lala lala

2009-10-29T21:37:00.000-07:00

A baby built like a tank. Check.

A sink full of water. Check.

Towels on floor to mop up the horrible mess. Check.

So worth it.

Pile-Up

2009-10-26T20:42:00.000-07:00

Not many words are needed... It just makes my heart happy.

Happy Birthday Eric!

2009-10-15T20:27:00.000-07:00

He's 36! Eric, you are an amazing man. You are a loving husband and father, and a great friend to everyone. Even with all the newness of Quinn....you have made time for your family, you work hard and you continue to go to school and receive top honors! We are so proud of you and we love you!

(Isaiah making a birthday card for Eric)

Its a Long Way to Texas

2009-10-14T20:03:00.000-07:00

Our dear friends, Joe & Christine finally made it back to Indiana. They moved to Texas several years ago and we have desparately missed them. They actually came back for the wedding (in previous post) but also to visit family and friends. They met Quinn for the first time and thankfully he had big smiles for both of them. It was a very busy 4 1/2 days but it was sooooo good to see them. We love you guys! Can you move back? :)

Matt & Erin's Wedding

2009-10-11T19:07:00.000-07:00

CONGRATS Matt & Erin!
May your life together be blessed. Thank you for sharing your amazing day with all of us!

Our friends, Matt & Erin were married last week on Saturday, October 3rd. (Yes, I figure while this is late, it is better than never.) Eric was a groomsman. It was an amazing wedding for several reasons. First, it brought many friends together and several from far away (we love you Joe & christine). Secondly, the reception was loads of fun and we (Eric and I) believe had some of the best food since our wedding! (This is only our opinion.)

The wedding was short and sweet...and I do mean short and sweet. Probably 20 minutes tops! How cool are Matt & Erin?!??!! The reception was at Nelson's BBQ and while we waited FOREVER for the bridal party (who were off having their own little fiesta :) No hatin' here), it was well worth it. The food was scrum-diddili-umptious and we ate until our bellies were full. Eric actually said he though the food even topped ours. Sacrilege I say. Sacrilege.

The dance floor was quite the hopping place and the kids had a GREAT time. Isaiah was a dancing fool. Who knew he had it in him? And the rhythym is finally coming out which is a relief. :) He did the moonwalk, numerous handstands, danced with the bride, danced with his favorite person, Christine, danced with his mama :) and with his friends, Claire and Isabelle.

The adults also had quite a rockin' time. It was great to see all of the "boys" together again and was wonderful to visit with friends. Some of our friends (unrelated to this group) offered to watch Quinn during the reception. What a blessing! We were able to enjoy the evening with no worries, talk with no interruptions and just have an awesome time.

Trivial Post

2009-10-10T19:01:00.000-07:00

I realized I never post anything about the mundane, trivial, fun things in life.This is my new fabulous, and I do mean fabulous, pair of shoes. I love them. Cost $90 but only paid $10. Pretty proud of myself and want the world to see them.

Thanks Christine for the help... :)

So Proud

2009-10-09T11:07:00.000-07:00

Isaiah took part in his first award ceremony at his new school last week...and he received an award! His award from his teacher recognized him for being positive, both in adjusting to his new school and his attitude towards the kids in his classroom. I was SO proud!

Bath Time Fun

2009-10-07T21:03:00.001-07:00

Doesn't this just make you smile?

Why We Love Indiana

2009-10-05T20:57:00.000-07:00

...because it is cold enough to have to bundle up at the beginning of October. Sigh. (At least they're cute....and yes, this was a very early morning before school. Sigh again.)

6 Months!

2009-10-02T20:30:00.000-07:00

It is almost unbelievable that Quinn is now 6 months old. Time has FLOWN by and he is getting bigger and bigger...huge really. He now has two teeth on the bottom, is scooting across the floor and getting up on his hands and knees. He does refuse to actually crawl and seems to prefer the army crawl method. Regardless, he gets where he wants to go and rather quickly I might add. He laughs all the time, has a huge smile and is generally a very content baby. No, he still doesn't sleep through the night. We randomly get a night or two unexpectedly but there is no rhyme or reason to it. Yes, we have tried everything but we are willing to hear suggestions. Quinn continues to blow bubbles (which is the pic that his mouth looks funny) and adores his big brother Isaiah and lights up when he sees his daddy. I'm always good for the food. :)

Happy 60th Dad!

2009-09-29T12:44:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday Dad!

The boys and I went home this weekend to help celebrate dad's birthday with the family. Spent the time hanging out and talking, Saturday Isaiah made a card for g'pa and Sunday we enjoyed a birthday lunch prepared by Bridget (brother's girlfriend). It was delicious. Afterwards we took (or tried to take) some pics of theproud grandparents with their growing brood of grandbabies. It's getting a little more difficult but fun none-the-less. :)

A Boy and His Dog

2009-09-28T14:24:00.000-07:00

Isaiah LOVES his dog, Jeb, AKA "my adopted brother." Although Jeb's obvious master is Eric, he knows who to go to to get some lovin'.

God's Plan

2009-09-21T20:12:00.000-07:00

So the news on the job front is still nada. I have been looking and looking and looking, etc. There aren't many to choose from and the ones that have been offered make my unemployment pay look lucrative. To my utter astonishment, I LOVED being home this summer with the boys and still enjoy being home with Quinn...much more that I even thought I would. BUT enjoyment does not pay the bills. I was pretty excited about a job I interviewed for a couple of weeks ago and found out last Monday that I didn't get it. Was pretty bummed (still am) and really struggled with the whole "why?" thing. This brings on the questions...

While it is easy to say "it wasn't meant to be," the people saying that aren't the ones that will have to figure out how to pay the bills. This said...I do realize that God has a plan and unfortunately it isn't always the same as mine. I am sure that His plan is better (okay, I know it will be better) but for those of us with control issues this is a hard thing to surrender. With this surrender comes the realization that when I initially found out I was going to lose my job, I figured we had until the end of June before our savings ran out. June has come and gone and we are still okay.

So. Knowing this, saying it out loud, reading it...why do I still have problems trusting his plan fearlessly and without question?

Me & My Babe

2009-09-14T11:14:00.000-07:00

(...Or at least one of them :) )

I find that since I am the one who loves to take pics in our family (much to E's dismay at times), I am often not in the pictures. This isn't a huge problem except then it often appears as though I wasn't even there. During special events, I do want to remember being there...if for no other reason than to document it for posterity. :)

Anyway, here are a couple that Isaiah took on a random day doing random stuff and I think they're pretty cute.

Some Fun Pics

2009-09-11T14:15:00.000-07:00

Just some pictures for the fun of it. Isaiah wanted to pose with Quinn and I thought this one of them was hilarious since their facial expressions are pretty much identical!
The second one was caught after Quinn gave the dog's hairy back a big, open-mouthed kiss. He didn't seem to like it (Quinn that is) but kept trying even after this pic. He really gets quite a kick out of Jeb. He often smiles and talks to him even though Jeb pays him very little mind at this point (unless there is still tastiness around Quinn's mouth...then there is licking attempted when he thinks I'm not looking. Yuck.)

Goshen 1st Fridays

2009-09-10T19:36:00.000-07:00

For those who do not live around here...Goshen businesses started this thing called First Fridays of Goshen. The first friday of every month, the small businesses in downtown Goshen have specials, there is live music, random clowns walking around, and different months have special events. For September it was a Fashion Show which included a Yoga Demonstration. I was involved in the yoga demo which happened while the fashion show was going on. Yes, sounds strange but received very good feedback. :) In the top pic you can see one of the little girls who were part of the show and absolutely stole the show!

Anyway, we (this includes my Yoga instructor Kara, myself and 4 other ladies) did a quick 10 minute group demo before the show started. When the show started we then paired off and all 6 of us took turns doing sequences with a partner. This said, I was hoping that my son or husband would be able to get some good pictures of the group of us flowing in poses but alas...my second son decided to be fussy, Eric had to "step out" and the camera was then manned by Isaiah.

Now I do not say this with fear. Isaiah enjoys taking pictures and usually does a pretty good job. In defense of him, I guess no one really told him to take pics of the group so they were mainly of me (God love him) and many were of my rear end since that happened to be where he chose to stand in relation to the stage.

That said here are a couple.

How cute is he?

2009-09-10T19:32:00.001-07:00

I just happen to think this outfit is adorable and wanted to share it with the world. :)

Florida...

2009-09-05T10:06:00.000-07:00

West Palm Beach to be exact. The weekend before E started school, I left for a long weekend to go to WPB to visit one of my dear friends, Chris. WITHOUT KIDS! It was a wonderful time. We were able to spend girl time together, just talking, hanging on the beach, eating (okay sometimes she forgot to feed me but I quickly learned to make myself at home) and enjoying her son, Anthony (21 months) and her husband, Dan. Her mom made some killer food for us and I met their friend, AJ. For three nights I slept with NO disturbances! (okay...there was the slight disturbance of a 16 month old around 7-8am-ish in the morning...but that's better than 3 and unforunately I was already up!!!) It was awesome.

It was wonderful to reconnect and just relax. It is amazing to have a friend in life that together we can fill in any amount of time with talking and not run out of subjects. To know that no matter how much time passes, we can always pick up where we left off. To know that we can go years without seeing each other but she is only a call away and there aren't many secrets. To know that we have both grown from single, goin' out ladies to being wives and mothers and we are STILL friends. To know that there have been bumps along the road in our friendship but ultimately the bond hasn't changed. Freakin' fabulous. Love you Chris!

5 Months!

2009-09-02T18:27:00.000-07:00

Quinn is 5 months old! He continues to be completely adorable of course. He is starting to sleep better...a majority of the time he only wakes up once in the middle of the night, eats and then goes back to sleep. He still likes to suck on his toes, play with his feet and stick his tongue out. The newest addition to that is that he does this weird sucking thing with his lip. I can't seem to capture it though since as soon as he does it, I pull the camera out and he stops. Some day...

He rolls all over the place but hasn't attempted to crawl yet. Seems to be a little annoyed with the whole process of laying on his belly to get somewhere. I think he would rather just move to walking or jumping. He is definitely a mover and a shaker. That said, he LOVES his jumper. I sometimes watch him and wonder how he doesn't get whiplash. I think I would just throw up.

He adores Isaiah and tends to be a sitting duck for all of Isaiah's little whims. This is expressed clearly in the above picture. :( Isaiah does get quite a kick out of it and Quinn seems to find many of his antics funny.Check out Quinn's face!?!?!? Don't you wonder what he was thinking at that exact moment?

This is a favorite game with daddy: Daddy blows in my belly and I suck on his head. Hilarious to see but slightly gross afterwards.

Another favorite game of the "boys" I call "spit talking." It is much like you would envision Cavemen communicating. Sometimes they sit together, sometimes they are sitting across the room...it doesn't matter. Eric will make this sound with his lips...a pause will follow...Quinn will respond with the same sound being blown from his lips...another pause and daddy will respond like wise. Sometimes Isaiah adds one. I can't do it so I stay out of it. It is quite humorous to witness although quite messy and slobbery if you are the lucky one holding Quinn.

I do believe that daddy is Quinn's favorite person or at least it is quickly becoming that way. He loves his brother and of course I (being the breast-feeding mama) provide the good stuff but daddy always seems to make him less fussy. Don't get me wrong...this is a WONDERFUL thing!

Mornin' Lovin'

2009-08-25T18:23:00.001-07:00

Because Isaiah is going to a new school this year (and because of Elkhart changing everything in the school system including start times) he has to get up at the ridiculous hour of 6:45am to be ready and out of the house by 7:15am. So far it hasn't been a problem (thank God!) and this morning was precious. I was already up feeding Quinn so I went to wake up Isaiah and he wanted Quinn to cuddle with him. I put Quinn beside Isaiah and he automatically turned on his side and wrapped his arm around Isaiah's face. It was priceless and absoutely endearing.

The Tongue

2009-08-25T18:22:00.001-07:00

Quinn's newest discovery is his tongue. It is quite hilarious so I thought I would post a couple of the tongue in action...

Pointless Interviews

2009-08-24T20:34:00.001-07:00

So I wasted much of my day today on a completely pointless interview and left just frustrated enough to feel like crying.

A long story short...I went on this interview with the gut feeling that it wasn't the position I applied for. It was a group interview, I asked to make sure it was for the postion I wanted and no one would give me an answer. I went because I can't really afford to not take the chance. I had to find a sitter for Quinn, had to drive a 1/2 hour each way and then sat through the first hour thinking I needed to figure out a way to get out of there without being rude or disrespectful. I knew more and had more experience than the lady interviewing all of us that was fresh out of college and has never worked in this environment. Argh.

Anyway, I was finally able to make my escape politely, drove home complaining to Eric and wondering why I want to work at all. Then I realized...I don't. I don't want to go back to work. I have learned how to define myself as a stay-at-home mom. I miss Isaiah now that he is in school and I enjoy Quinn (when I get sleep). But...alas, I must continue to search since as of yet, no one has offered to support us. :) One more year of school for Eric and then maybe I can again reconsider. Best said by Megan...Sigh. Sigh.

Boy-less vacation!

2009-08-23T20:29:00.000-07:00

Four days until I leave for Florida...getting more and more excited. I will be childless (I will miss them), I will get to sleep through the night and I will be laying in the hot sun on the beach doing nothing with my dear friend Chris. How wonderful does that sound?

2nd Grade!!

2009-08-18T06:40:00.000-07:00

Today was the day my baby entered 2nd grade. Contrary to what I hear most parents say, I was a little more saddened to see him go after staying home with his this summer. I will miss the days with him.

This year came with a twist...long story short...we were okay with the current school Isaiah goes to but it only goes to second grade and in third he will go to a different school which Eric and I will NOT allow him to go to. Last minute (and I mean 4 days beforehand) we found out Isaiah was approved for a transfer to another elementary school. Sheesh. Nothing like a little frantic-ness to start off the year.

Isaiah and I walked through the school yesterday, met his teacher and of course had to check out the gym and library. Another change was that Isaiah will now ride a bus. He was nervous this morning and worried he wouldn't make any friends.

I picked him up this afternoon and he announced "I did like you told me. I was brave." He then informed me that he liked his teacher although she was meaner than he thought she would be, he made two friends (he can't remember either name of course) and his new gym teacher talked too much. Whew. I would say school started off just fine.

Small Group Madness

2009-08-09T14:23:00.000-07:00

I know I have randomly mentioned our small group numerous times throughout my blog. Well, I finally remembered to bring my camera and can document these amazing people!

Through the summer we don't meet regularly but we do try to get together every month or so to keep connected. We decided on a cookout, hosted by Mike on his large, rambling, beautiful "farm." Acres of woods, trails, a pond and unending fun for the kids. We also have some pretty fabulous, unbelievable cooks in our group so occasions that call for food are wonderful things. :)

We spent the evening eating, talking, eating (yes more), some fishing and lots of young kids playing soccer and building forts and teenagers texting. I also decided to include a picture of the "jeep-transport-thingy" that sent me into labor during our last small group get together at Mike's! It isn't actually the same one...he traded the original one for several smaller ones that he is restoring but it is close enough to get the general idea. My joke was that after sending me into labor the last time, I didn't figure there was much that could top that kind of excitement!

Anyway, there are a ton of pics here but I didn't want to leave anyone or anything out so bear with the slideshow!

My Blue Eyed Babe

2009-08-07T18:53:00.000-07:00

Just for fun...he was too cute not to take pictures of while I was the un-professional photographer for Kids Peace Camp (more on that to come later).

Joys of Summer

2009-08-06T17:50:00.000-07:00

Although I randomly freak out about still not having a job, I am now able to see the greatness of being home with the boys this summer. One of the things we have enjoyed is swimming at our commuinity pool...it's cheap and is only two summers old. We haven't been there in awhile since it really hasn't been very warm but this week shaped up to be a pretty good one. Quinn and I opted not to get in this time since we went late in the afternoon but in the past we have also enjoyed the water...Isaiah took his friend Landon along and they had a great time using up all their energy for a couple of hours. Aren't they handsome!?!? :)

Dave Matthews

2009-08-04T20:12:00.000-07:00

This past weekend E and I had a kid-free day/evening thanks to the Fabulous Andrea! We went to Deercreek (I believe now known as the Verizon Center) in Indy to a Dave Matthews concert. We drove up early to meet friends and hang out before the show (a little tailgatin'). The slightly obsessessed DMB fan, Kevin (love, love Kevin and no judgment :) ) had VIP parking so we met up there with Paula, Scott, Dori, Tom, Jeff and Kevin. (We missed Kevin's wife Jen who is large with child and expecting anytime now...okay three weeks but still...who's counting, right Jen?) Anyway, beautiful weather for a concert, good seats and we enjoyed ourselves. Got home about 2:30 in the morning and by 3:00a Quinn was awake and rarin' to go! Shocker I know. :) It was actually okay since I was already up...it was the other two times he woke up after that that I wasn't feelin' :( All that said, thanks again Andrea for giving us a whole day away!

4 Months!

2009-08-02T19:31:00.000-07:00

Quinn is 4 months today! And what a crazy ride. At his 4 month appointment he was 27 3/4 inches long (completely off the percentile chart) and weighs 16 lbs.13 oz (which is the 90th percentile). He is a rock solid babe!

He still does not sleep but Eric's version is that he is just "lovin' life." I can say that at least he is a happy awake baby...He smiles constantly and is pretty content as long as he isn't hungry!
He has started eating baby food...bananas and rice cereal so far. We can't seem to keep him full. :( He loves his jumper and being outside. He continues to talk and laugh (Isaiah can really get him going...I would love to know what Quinn is thinking with some of the stuff Isaiah does). He recently started trying to make sounds using P's and B's which is hilarious because he concentrates really hard to get them out.

Isaiah continues to be a wonderful, helpful big brother. I am not sure what I would do without him!

The Dirt, The Grime, The County Fair

2009-07-27T19:06:00.000-07:00

What a telling title. The County Fair is dirty, grimy, stinky, crowded and overpriced. So why go? The never ending supply of rides that turn you in circles, the greasy food, the loud noise, the stinky barns filled with filthy animals...

Soooo, this year, Eric surprised me by coming home and stating he was leaving work early on thursday (we actually went on the 23rd...I am a little late on the story...) and we were going to go to the fair! May the heavens fall down!!! Is this really my husband?!?!? To understand the magnitude of this sacrifice you must realize that Eric does not like large crowds. He really, really hates the County Fair. God Bless him.

Originally Eric thought he was slick and tried to get me to take the boys during the day while he was at work but it never seemed to work out. Anyway, we braved the day...beautiful weather (not brutally hot like last year) and we were leaving by the time it became over crowded. Quinn loved it and was happy and content the entire time we were there. We took Isaiah's friend Landon with us and the two were happy as larks riding ride after ride after ride. Overall it was a pretty fantastic family day. Isaiah and I enjoyed it immensely and while I don't think Eric would describe it as "fantastic" I don't think he hated it as much as some years...and that counts!
Isaiah & Landon on the bottom right hand side!

Oh the Agony

2009-07-26T20:02:00.000-07:00

The ongoing saga of my sleeplessness continues...or at least it is trying to....

I am sitting here listening to my youngest (but right now, loudest) son crying (okay screaming). It is 10:45pm. He went to sleep beautifully at 9:30pm. He drank a full 8 oz of formula LOADED with rice cereal. He was exhausted. He took only one nap today which ended a good 6 hours before he went to bed. What is the problem, I ask? What am I doing wrong?

Sleepless in Indiana

2009-07-26T07:39:00.000-07:00

Yes. A terrible movie pun but that should let you know how tired I am. :( After sleeping (mostly) through the night for the past couple of weeks, Quinn has decided to go back to waking up every 1 1/2-2 hours. Yes, we have let him cry (much to Eric's dismay since he always has to work in the a.m.). We have let him cry and cry and cry. Yes, we have tried adding cereal to his bottle. Yes, we follow a routine. No, he does not have his days and nights mixed up...he doesn't sleep during the day much either.

What is going on? Anyone have any helpful hints that we haven't tried? (Besides the Benadryl or whiskey route?) I am exhausted and currently am SOOO thankful I do not work! I would be a walking zombie. If you have suggestions, I promise to read and try EVERY one of them!!! :)

Isaiah's Entertaining Ways

2009-07-22T19:28:00.001-07:00

Although we didn't plan it this way, it is often quite handy to have children that are 7 years apart. When I need to get things done, Isaiah will help by feeding Quinn a bottle or sometimes just keep him occupied so I can finally brush my teeth and wash my face for the day! :) Isaiah has found propping Quinn on his belly amuses both of them and he is quite proud of this accomplishment...

Hands & Feet

2009-07-22T19:17:00.001-07:00

Quinn is now about 3 1/2 months old. He is rolling from belly to back and has just found his feet and toes! And my, how he does enjoy them! He is absolutely adorable!

Dad

2009-07-20T19:14:00.000-07:00

Dad is better! Went to Ohio last week while dad was sick...I felt a little more in control that way and felt the need to be with my dad. :( Much pain later...he is doing well. Thank you for all that prayed and thought of him (and our family during that time)!!!!!

3 months

2009-07-09T13:44:00.000-07:00

A 3 month smile...

It's amazing to me how fast he has grown and how big he is getting. He rolled over (unseen) from belly to back for the first time this past Sunday (5th) and then we witnessed it the next day. Of course there was much verbal encouragement and lots of clapping after he did it!